Routine hari2 adalah seperti berikut
6am - 7am : bangun dan besiap (siap ade timeframe tuh)(ade gak sesi nyusu kadang 1 kali)
7am - 8am : anto Sami and sampai opis (sempat gak sami susu lagik dalam 1 kali tapi jarang la)
8am - 5pm : bertungkus lumus kat opis (tambah tolak ngan ngulo sekalik) (tiada lagik program hepi pumping)
5pm - 6pm : balik keje and amik Sami ('mami susu' ayat biasa bila Sami masuk kete)(at least 1 kali susu)
6pm - 8pm : siapkan dinner sambil sesi menyusu (besenye 2 kali)
8pm - 11pm : dinner, tgk tv, main2 ngan Sami dan sesi menyusu (bese dalam 2-4 kali jua)
11pm - 6pm : tgk tv patu tido sambil sesi mnyusu (bese 2 - 4 kali)
dan sambung balik spt bese. itu rutin hari bekerja. jarang kuar mlm and jarang mkn kat luar. pasar malam hari isnin aje. weekend lain la rutinnye. so kire2 minimum Sami susu waktu blk keje sampai la esok paginye adelah 7 - 13kali.. fuiyooohhhhhhh tu aku dh stop hepi pumping session tuh. time malam mmg Sami kuat susu. Aku rasa anak org lein dh tido nyenyak dah xmo bangun, Sami masih lagik mimpi susu dia hehehehe. fiuhh beshnye hidup aku.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Sunday, December 20, 2009
It's 1.13am and i'm still browsing this one O&G company which i got i-view on this coming monday. wish me luck. i'm pretty sure the common question is like 'tell me bout urself' which i really love to answer as 'i'm a mother. period.' tehehehe lempang kang. and i dont have a clue wat type of company they are. from the web i can say that they are a service provider company, consultant, upstream and concentrate on well, reservoir drilling. to add the funny drama is the position that i applied is reception. wat?? hahahaha betol tak tipu. give me one simple word if u read any job advertisement searching for reception/admin assistant & financial. can i say 'local'? ye la local kompeni aje suka nk cum kan sume position.
So why sebok2 susah2? coz the girl who called me for the i-view mentioned that 'previously u work in O&G' omg menci aku. aku mintak keje admin aje laaaaa... bukan nye procurement ke ape jadah!. so i better siapkan perisai as i've an instinct they gonna ask me different set of question. like they gonna hire me to the position ceh, bring it on. Hahaha. tapi sbnrnye mmg bersyukur, alhamdulillah dpt i-view sbb aku mmg nak sgt keje bese2 buat masa skang ini dan aku nk location kat KL.
Papi mmg agak bengkek and tak leh terima napa aku nk keje mcm nih. Dia terima jawapan aku 'i nak blk umah dgn senang hati, i tanak big responsibility buat masa nih', dia terima tapi dia xpaham. Aku rasa dia ingat aku dan ok sbb tahun nih aku selalu depress, yes papi dah ok tapi nak rehat kejap bleh tak?. aku depress. paling menci susahnye jadik aku kalu depress aku xleh nak nangis or luahkan dgn emosi yg sebenar sbb aku ignorance, takat ckp dpn muka or ngadu kat sista kat ym aku leh ckp leh luahkan. tapi nak lepaskan huh xtau cmne.
'nangis skin cuba nangis' suh na cik elly
'errr xboleh la elly sbb rasa cam bese2 aje' jawab aku time tu padahal aku ade masalah besar giler! hahahahaha
Oleh itu, aku rasa nak teman sami tdo skang nih. poor baby sami, sleep ngan baju kuar ptg tadik. Nak tuko kan xsampai ati plak takut dia terbangun. Papi lak tgh layan perasaan ManU kalah ngan Fulham. siap kalah 0-3. Mana la tak panas hati mamat tuh. Kepada sesiapa yg minat, tak minat atau biasa2 aje pasal bola esp english premier league, ManU is one of the biggest club in the world. biggest tu tmasuklah player, fan. owner, money value, marketing, saham etc lah. Paling penting ManU is a champion. kire byk la trophy dia. Hebat? mmg hebat. Aku tak berat sebelah. ManU mmg hebat spt team2 hebat yg lain, jadik bile club hebat nih kalah xkesah la kalah ngan sapa mmg mbengangkan fan dan juga mendatangkn kegembiraan kepada fan club yg lein. Bese kalu menang papi sure pakai jersi esoknye tapi aku agak kompom esok papi xpakai jersi sbb dh kalah hehehe.
Jadik before sleep meh kite layan tag Drama Mama:
1: First time jumpa your hubby bila dan kat mana?
October 2002. Orange Club Jalan Kia Peng (iye bleh tak jumpak bakal suami time g clubbing?)
2 : Love at first sight?
Love at first dance with Hot In Herre background song (go u-tube and yes pls imagine the dancing routine were the two lovebirds trying to take off each other cloths)
3 : Who is he when the first time u met him?
He's car-less but he earn triple than me. Thank you Allah.
4 : How long it takes for him to ask u out for a date?
After the dance and i dont believed him. Who wants to date a very sexy girl met in the hip hop club? (buang masa, ko takkan buat bini dan terang2 xsesuai dibuat laki, amik ko kena batang hidung sdr)
5 : First place dating?
McD Jusco Taman Maluri. Makan ice-cream ha ha
6 : How he proposed?
He dont. I forced him (gelak setan)
7 : Special date with your hubby?
When he bring me to outlets and say 'u pilih la ape2 u suka' - very special date haha me not materialistic.
Too many special date but one i love most is when he gave me the first and ever rose. i was freezing at that time, waiting for him (sambil menyangkung tuh), the sempoarna didnt help, i started cursing as he was late and i hate cold wether. i cant stand KL for 27deg pls dont ask me to accomodate Melbourne for -deg; but suddently from far i can see him running towards me holding that one be-a-u-ti-ful rose. oh i love him so much! so cute
8 : Changes that he asked you to do?
Nothing but i know he wants me to gain weight. Who doesnt want an upper-partner like Pam or bottom-less like Beyonce? he's truly my american berbangsa jawa boifren
9 : What is about him that you love so much?
He turned out to be a good guy, almost everyday at least one waktu we will jamaah. Sapa yg tanak dapat laki baik, tak penah tinggi sore, keje bagus, semayang tak tinggal, tak paksa2 buat itu ini, selalu bwk jalan, pas kawin tak berubah sama aje perangai (xdek le tetiba jadik dragon ke), tak pernah mengungkit, jgnkan wajib yg sunat2 pon selalu buat, baik ngan mak pak kite, layan anak buah kite and sanggup kawin ngan kite walaupon mak tak kasik? so kalu ade perangai buruk tu aku buat tak nampak aje la patu kalu aku buat perangai mmg aku nih saja la nk masukneraka choy!
Hehe over kan? cam tak caya kan? aku pong xcaya ade gak laki cmnih kat dunia. Allah kasik jackpot
10 : What is about him that you wish he would change?
Cam org yg tak bersyukur, kadang byk gak nk dia cmnih camtuh. lempang kang
11 : You will lose your mind and crack your head when he..
He's not around. Bukan la nak 24hrs disisi. Tapi kompom aku susah hati cth kalu aku blk kampung dia xdpt ikut. So mlm tu tido berdua aje dgn sami, papi takde. MEMANG susah hati. tapi tak ckp la kat sapa2, muka pon xdek tunjuk (kan ignorance) tapi dalam hati Allah dan papi saja yg tahu. IYE papi tahu! cis whats wrong with me eh? Paling teruk time confinement, papi kena keje patu blk weekend. Paling xtahan dia siap outstation kat Budapest. Memang sumpah rasa nak meroyan! oh i'm not as tough as i look :p
12 : You will smile through your eyes for the whole day when he
Seriously said 'nice ass! baby!' with his nigga slang and the spanking act of course. I may look simple when outing but i'm surely hot & sexy dalam rumah. Haha ~ there's one time where sami show me hot nugget and say 'hot mami, hot' and papi jokingly said 'mami mmg hot' surely makes me smile. Hahahaha tak sesia seh pakai spender and sleeveless aje sbg uniform kat umah.
13. Complete below sentences.."My love towards my hubby is as BIG as.. "
as BIG as papi's heart. Papi selalu ckp 'do i need a reason to love u?' perrghhh for the person who sweat when its come to public speaking, giving that statement mmg priceless! menci tul! Kalah gak aku walaupon lidah aku bercabang hahahaha
Oh well..
Drama Mama said -----Whoever dare to leave comment here, YOU ARE TAGGED! --- bukan aku ek, Baizura yg tulis gitu :p
So why sebok2 susah2? coz the girl who called me for the i-view mentioned that 'previously u work in O&G' omg menci aku. aku mintak keje admin aje laaaaa... bukan nye procurement ke ape jadah!. so i better siapkan perisai as i've an instinct they gonna ask me different set of question. like they gonna hire me to the position ceh, bring it on. Hahaha. tapi sbnrnye mmg bersyukur, alhamdulillah dpt i-view sbb aku mmg nak sgt keje bese2 buat masa skang ini dan aku nk location kat KL.
Papi mmg agak bengkek and tak leh terima napa aku nk keje mcm nih. Dia terima jawapan aku 'i nak blk umah dgn senang hati, i tanak big responsibility buat masa nih', dia terima tapi dia xpaham. Aku rasa dia ingat aku dan ok sbb tahun nih aku selalu depress, yes papi dah ok tapi nak rehat kejap bleh tak?. aku depress. paling menci susahnye jadik aku kalu depress aku xleh nak nangis or luahkan dgn emosi yg sebenar sbb aku ignorance, takat ckp dpn muka or ngadu kat sista kat ym aku leh ckp leh luahkan. tapi nak lepaskan huh xtau cmne.
'nangis skin cuba nangis' suh na cik elly
'errr xboleh la elly sbb rasa cam bese2 aje' jawab aku time tu padahal aku ade masalah besar giler! hahahahaha
Oleh itu, aku rasa nak teman sami tdo skang nih. poor baby sami, sleep ngan baju kuar ptg tadik. Nak tuko kan xsampai ati plak takut dia terbangun. Papi lak tgh layan perasaan ManU kalah ngan Fulham. siap kalah 0-3. Mana la tak panas hati mamat tuh. Kepada sesiapa yg minat, tak minat atau biasa2 aje pasal bola esp english premier league, ManU is one of the biggest club in the world. biggest tu tmasuklah player, fan. owner, money value, marketing, saham etc lah. Paling penting ManU is a champion. kire byk la trophy dia. Hebat? mmg hebat. Aku tak berat sebelah. ManU mmg hebat spt team2 hebat yg lain, jadik bile club hebat nih kalah xkesah la kalah ngan sapa mmg mbengangkan fan dan juga mendatangkn kegembiraan kepada fan club yg lein. Bese kalu menang papi sure pakai jersi esoknye tapi aku agak kompom esok papi xpakai jersi sbb dh kalah hehehe.
Jadik before sleep meh kite layan tag Drama Mama:
1: First time jumpa your hubby bila dan kat mana?
October 2002. Orange Club Jalan Kia Peng (iye bleh tak jumpak bakal suami time g clubbing?)
2 : Love at first sight?
Love at first dance with Hot In Herre background song (go u-tube and yes pls imagine the dancing routine were the two lovebirds trying to take off each other cloths)
3 : Who is he when the first time u met him?
He's car-less but he earn triple than me. Thank you Allah.
4 : How long it takes for him to ask u out for a date?
After the dance and i dont believed him. Who wants to date a very sexy girl met in the hip hop club? (buang masa, ko takkan buat bini dan terang2 xsesuai dibuat laki, amik ko kena batang hidung sdr)
5 : First place dating?
McD Jusco Taman Maluri. Makan ice-cream ha ha
6 : How he proposed?
He dont. I forced him (gelak setan)
7 : Special date with your hubby?
When he bring me to outlets and say 'u pilih la ape2 u suka' - very special date haha me not materialistic.
Too many special date but one i love most is when he gave me the first and ever rose. i was freezing at that time, waiting for him (sambil menyangkung tuh), the sempoarna didnt help, i started cursing as he was late and i hate cold wether. i cant stand KL for 27deg pls dont ask me to accomodate Melbourne for -deg; but suddently from far i can see him running towards me holding that one be-a-u-ti-ful rose. oh i love him so much! so cute
8 : Changes that he asked you to do?
Nothing but i know he wants me to gain weight. Who doesnt want an upper-partner like Pam or bottom-less like Beyonce? he's truly my american berbangsa jawa boifren
9 : What is about him that you love so much?
He turned out to be a good guy, almost everyday at least one waktu we will jamaah. Sapa yg tanak dapat laki baik, tak penah tinggi sore, keje bagus, semayang tak tinggal, tak paksa2 buat itu ini, selalu bwk jalan, pas kawin tak berubah sama aje perangai (xdek le tetiba jadik dragon ke), tak pernah mengungkit, jgnkan wajib yg sunat2 pon selalu buat, baik ngan mak pak kite, layan anak buah kite and sanggup kawin ngan kite walaupon mak tak kasik? so kalu ade perangai buruk tu aku buat tak nampak aje la patu kalu aku buat perangai mmg aku nih saja la nk masuk
Hehe over kan? cam tak caya kan? aku pong xcaya ade gak laki cmnih kat dunia. Allah kasik jackpot
10 : What is about him that you wish he would change?
Cam org yg tak bersyukur, kadang byk gak nk dia cmnih camtuh. lempang kang
11 : You will lose your mind and crack your head when he..
He's not around. Bukan la nak 24hrs disisi. Tapi kompom aku susah hati cth kalu aku blk kampung dia xdpt ikut. So mlm tu tido berdua aje dgn sami, papi takde. MEMANG susah hati. tapi tak ckp la kat sapa2, muka pon xdek tunjuk (kan ignorance) tapi dalam hati Allah dan papi saja yg tahu. IYE papi tahu! cis whats wrong with me eh? Paling teruk time confinement, papi kena keje patu blk weekend. Paling xtahan dia siap outstation kat Budapest. Memang sumpah rasa nak meroyan! oh i'm not as tough as i look :p
12 : You will smile through your eyes for the whole day when he
Seriously said 'nice ass! baby!' with his nigga slang and the spanking act of course. I may look simple when outing but i'm surely hot & sexy dalam rumah. Haha ~ there's one time where sami show me hot nugget and say 'hot mami, hot' and papi jokingly said 'mami mmg hot' surely makes me smile. Hahahaha tak sesia seh pakai spender and sleeveless aje sbg uniform kat umah.
13. Complete below sentences.."My love towards my hubby is as BIG as.. "
as BIG as papi's heart. Papi selalu ckp 'do i need a reason to love u?' perrghhh for the person who sweat when its come to public speaking, giving that statement mmg priceless! menci tul! Kalah gak aku walaupon lidah aku bercabang hahahaha
Oh well..
Drama Mama said -----Whoever dare to leave comment here, YOU ARE TAGGED! --- bukan aku ek, Baizura yg tulis gitu :p
Friday, December 18, 2009
As i'm the official winner of Peraduan Buku Inspirasi 2009 (eceh saja jek nak ulang byk kali), i need to submit one pic for Mas collection. The due date is on this Sat but i couldnt find any suitable pic for her, ye lah either i'm too sexy, too cubby or too comot. And i was trying to snap earlier with sami but i dont dare to share it here. Too buruks! need to do something with my camera hahahaha bukan nk salahkan penjagaan muka, salahkan camera :p
So i rather put Sami as the mini model. Actually we are in the middle of our normal activities; drawing and colouring when i suddenly remember about his first masterpiece done at nursery and even he got 3 stars for it. Ohh i rated the work as much as the stars in the sky :D
So we started to punggah lemari buruk and finally found mami's frame collection (masih dgn plastic wrap okek), oh i'm becoming a hoarder but it's ok i'm not as bad as biqque. Yeah she's truly a shopaholic and hoarder. Someone need to knock her down take her money and grab her belongings and start a yard sale. Yard sale kena kat padang sekolah sbb baju dia aje kena 3 lemari.
sami dont really understand why mami is so proud with his work
Sami's workstation
And i just cant help it. One nite he found my empty makeup kit and he knew it can fit haha
Nih Papi's workstation, sepah siap nmpak tgh nk buat entry nih hahaha
Nih yg dia nak sgt nih
Mami? as mine blkg meja papi aje.. hahahah my own sofa, feeling beauty hahahahah
Ok Mas, will give u good one soon or at least before this Sat. Update later!
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Sami is very talkative. Many peps told us that for his age he is 'cepat cakap' as he can pronounce and talk clearly. But there's one word that not include in his syllabus. And its affecting his behaviour. Bad habit i think. There are many occasion that he wont give in but showed different way to say it.
Besides say the magic word 'SORRY' he will come to you and either kiss or hug you to show that he's sorry but yeah sorry, i wont say that keramat words.
No. Not at all.
Last nite he threw his tonka (car) to me while watching previous season so u think u can dance. I dont know why. Maybe he's boring as papi was in the meeting. I ask him to say sorry to me but he just ignore me and instead saying the simple word, he came to me and smile (senyum cam comel sgt sbb tau buat salah) say 'mami' and hug me. I was so annoyed (eventho my heart was melting at that time heh heh).
When papi finished his conf-meeting he quickly go to him and play like usual (ye la aku asik jeling dia aje time tuh)
'Papi sami baling mami dgn tonka pastu xmo say sorry'
'Ha.. napa sami buat mcm tu, say sorry to mami' ask papi and even papi demo how to say sorry. he asked sami to say sorry then hug & kiss (yeah the demo includes raba action on the back - offcourse sami cant see that). But after half an hour pursuing him he is just being ignorance (like me) and keep playing. (Eeeii geramnye)
'B, dia betol2 macam i tau, kecik2 dulu if abah marah i pegi kat mak, if mak marah i pegi kat abah' told papi to me (saja menyemarakkn geram aku on previous issues hahaha sempat interframe tuh)
And after awhile suddenly sami came to me and smile,'mami susu' sambil peluk2. Hah! this is my time! i asked him nicely to say sorry to me but again he just wont listen. Korang rasa nak buat cemana ek? Sampai nangis la sami takmo say sorry. Tu pon nangis sbb nak susu. Memula sanggup baring diam2 nk tutup mata sbb xdpt susu. Herm... The reason we wanted to teach him the sorry word coz we noticed sometimes he thinks when he kiss or hug peps will accept his apology. I've done the stand in one place punishment but i want to teach him that we need to apologize when we doing something wrong.
Pikir2 balik time bercinta dulu papi pon susahhhhh nak cakap sorry. Hishh bapak borek anak rintik.
Besides say the magic word 'SORRY' he will come to you and either kiss or hug you to show that he's sorry but yeah sorry, i wont say that keramat words.
No. Not at all.
Last nite he threw his tonka (car) to me while watching previous season so u think u can dance. I dont know why. Maybe he's boring as papi was in the meeting. I ask him to say sorry to me but he just ignore me and instead saying the simple word, he came to me and smile (senyum cam comel sgt sbb tau buat salah) say 'mami' and hug me. I was so annoyed (eventho my heart was melting at that time heh heh).
When papi finished his conf-meeting he quickly go to him and play like usual (ye la aku asik jeling dia aje time tuh)
'Papi sami baling mami dgn tonka pastu xmo say sorry'
'Ha.. napa sami buat mcm tu, say sorry to mami' ask papi and even papi demo how to say sorry. he asked sami to say sorry then hug & kiss (yeah the demo includes raba action on the back - offcourse sami cant see that). But after half an hour pursuing him he is just being ignorance (like me) and keep playing. (Eeeii geramnye)
'B, dia betol2 macam i tau, kecik2 dulu if abah marah i pegi kat mak, if mak marah i pegi kat abah' told papi to me (saja menyemarakkn geram aku on previous issues hahaha sempat interframe tuh)
And after awhile suddenly sami came to me and smile,'mami susu' sambil peluk2. Hah! this is my time! i asked him nicely to say sorry to me but again he just wont listen. Korang rasa nak buat cemana ek? Sampai nangis la sami takmo say sorry. Tu pon nangis sbb nak susu. Memula sanggup baring diam2 nk tutup mata sbb xdpt susu. Herm... The reason we wanted to teach him the sorry word coz we noticed sometimes he thinks when he kiss or hug peps will accept his apology. I've done the stand in one place punishment but i want to teach him that we need to apologize when we doing something wrong.
Pikir2 balik time bercinta dulu papi pon susahhhhh nak cakap sorry. Hishh bapak borek anak rintik.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Semalam otw g opis dgr la amkrew dok sebok pasal mas kawin Selangor yg dh naik RM300. Cam bese macam2 reaksi lah diterima. Yg lucunye papi yg xpuas ati bile caller lelaki cam komplen psl harga maskawin yg dorg kata menyusahkan. Papi cakap 'takat 300 pon komplen'
Sebenarnye kitorg bedua paham alasan2 yg org mmg xmampu nih. Kite kena paham kat dunia nih ade org yg kadang nk spend RM1 untuk makan pon berkira sbb memang dia xmampu. Iye. Saya terima. Saya paham. Itu tolak tepi. Lain cite.
Ini bagi yg mampu tapi komplen sbb katanya 'hantaran dah tinggi'. Hehe, penah pikir tak kalu la cth hantaran RM5000 mas kawin RM80 ditukar maskawin RM300 Hantaran RM4780. Mau ka? sama aje jumlahnye kan? Rasenye ade jugak yg komplen karang. Bagi aku orang lelaki yg nak kawin (tolak yg betol2 xmampu tadik), kite kire golongan yg sederhana mampu nih, bila dorg komplen mas kawin tu senang aje. Dorang berkira dan kedekut. Iye lah. Duit hantaran kebykn org buat belanja kenduri tapi duit maskawin tu mmg 100% milik pengantin perempuan. Kedekut la tu sbb dia xleh mintak sikit :p
Time kitorg kawin dulu, mas kawin wajib RM80. Aku mintak RM200. Sebabnye? xdek sebab ape pon. Sebab aku suka2 nk 200 patu cam nk duit RM2 banyak2. Itu aje. Aku rasa kalu ade masa lebeh kalu mintak RM2k mungkin juga papi bagi. Tgk balik ayat tu 'kalau ade masa lebeh' Hahahaha sebabnye kitorg mengambil keputusan nak tunang, nikah dan majlis kenduri dlm masa xsampai sebulan.
Dan bagi aku juga kalau la setakat masalah duit kurang, bunga xdek kaler hitam, baju ketat, xdapat naik kete kuda, nak Anuar Zain nyanyi time sanding itu bukan kire masalah. Jangan nak kecoh. Takat duit maskawin xcukup lagik RM220 pon jgn nak kecoh. Kalu korg nak kawin nih takde masalah spt kawin tak dapat restu, xdek wali, pengantin laki kena kejar dgn parang, bakal mak mentua xsuka ngamok sampai sumpah2 bakal suami, jgn nak komplen. Ape jua masalah kekurangan leh diselesaikan pada masa berkenaan. Sekurang2 pas kawin korg leh duk diam2 hepi and maybe pikir nak bayar hutang.
Tapi kalu ade masalah spt keluarga tak restu, kena buang keluarga, kena sumpah, kena tuduh, kena maki etc ..iye itu baru masalah. Baru leh komplen (Tu pon xleh komplen secara terang sbb cam buka pekung didada).Takat naik mas kawin 300pon komplen. Lempang kang baru tau. Menci.
Sume sedia maklum hubungan baru yg tercipta antara mentua dan menantu baik laki baik pompan walaupon perkahwinan itu direstui pasti ade gak part2 yg terperli, termerajuk, terkepoh, tertakpuas hati etc. Apetah lagik la kalu kawin tu mentua tak berkenan. Bila dah berada dalam keadaan itu, ko takkan heran lah nk pakai lace dari negara mana time nikah. Kat kepala ko time tu nk lepaskan nikah aje .. kan? hahahahhahaa
As for me, bernasib baik la papi nk kawin xyah guna wali. Hahahahahaha. Akunye member mencanak hold kawin dekat 10tahun sbb bapak xmo jadik wali (tapi alhamdulillah dah kawin and bahagia pon aminn).
Katanye kalau kite kawin xdapat restu ibu bapa xkan bahagia. Betol ke? Itu sebelah pihak aje ke atau kedua2 pihak? Kalau mak pak aku restu and doakan kebahagiaan kitorg? Ha dah kire cam lawan doa bahagia ngan sumpahan la pulak ye? Hahahahahhaha
Bagi aku yg modern nih, aku lebeh suka dgn statement 'setiap pasangan mesti ada pasang surutnye, rough time sdr xkira la kaler kulit, beza agama, beza darjat ke ape' Jadik aku xsuka sgt lah kalu dgr spt 'ha aku dah cakap dah dia mmg jahat' hahaha hamboi cam ko leh tgk masa depan pulak hahahahhaha.
Pernah tak tgk drama yg mentua sungguh la kejam xkesah la kejam fizikal ke atau verbal. Kadang cam tak masuk aje kan? cam tipunye lah.. yg menantu tu kalu dah baik adoiii cam kena tindas gegila lah. Ropenye part mentua kejam tu mmg wujud cuma aku xjumpak lagik la menantu yg tahan kena buli siap doa tiap malam kesejahteraan mentua dia hahahhaha. Serius aku xpenah jumpak org yg begitu sabar.
Huh dah lari topik nih. Jadik kesimpulannye, kalu kedekut 300hengget kawin la dgn bukan gadis Selangor hahahhahah
Sebenarnye kitorg bedua paham alasan2 yg org mmg xmampu nih. Kite kena paham kat dunia nih ade org yg kadang nk spend RM1 untuk makan pon berkira sbb memang dia xmampu. Iye. Saya terima. Saya paham. Itu tolak tepi. Lain cite.
Ini bagi yg mampu tapi komplen sbb katanya 'hantaran dah tinggi'. Hehe, penah pikir tak kalu la cth hantaran RM5000 mas kawin RM80 ditukar maskawin RM300 Hantaran RM4780. Mau ka? sama aje jumlahnye kan? Rasenye ade jugak yg komplen karang. Bagi aku orang lelaki yg nak kawin (tolak yg betol2 xmampu tadik), kite kire golongan yg sederhana mampu nih, bila dorg komplen mas kawin tu senang aje. Dorang berkira dan kedekut. Iye lah. Duit hantaran kebykn org buat belanja kenduri tapi duit maskawin tu mmg 100% milik pengantin perempuan. Kedekut la tu sbb dia xleh mintak sikit :p
Time kitorg kawin dulu, mas kawin wajib RM80. Aku mintak RM200. Sebabnye? xdek sebab ape pon. Sebab aku suka2 nk 200 patu cam nk duit RM2 banyak2. Itu aje. Aku rasa kalu ade masa lebeh kalu mintak RM2k mungkin juga papi bagi. Tgk balik ayat tu 'kalau ade masa lebeh' Hahahaha sebabnye kitorg mengambil keputusan nak tunang, nikah dan majlis kenduri dlm masa xsampai sebulan.
Dan bagi aku juga kalau la setakat masalah duit kurang, bunga xdek kaler hitam, baju ketat, xdapat naik kete kuda, nak Anuar Zain nyanyi time sanding itu bukan kire masalah. Jangan nak kecoh. Takat duit maskawin xcukup lagik RM220 pon jgn nak kecoh. Kalu korg nak kawin nih takde masalah spt kawin tak dapat restu, xdek wali, pengantin laki kena kejar dgn parang, bakal mak mentua xsuka ngamok sampai sumpah2 bakal suami, jgn nak komplen. Ape jua masalah kekurangan leh diselesaikan pada masa berkenaan. Sekurang2 pas kawin korg leh duk diam2 hepi and maybe pikir nak bayar hutang.
Tapi kalu ade masalah spt keluarga tak restu, kena buang keluarga, kena sumpah, kena tuduh, kena maki etc ..iye itu baru masalah. Baru leh komplen (Tu pon xleh komplen secara terang sbb cam buka pekung didada).Takat naik mas kawin 300pon komplen. Lempang kang baru tau. Menci.
Sume sedia maklum hubungan baru yg tercipta antara mentua dan menantu baik laki baik pompan walaupon perkahwinan itu direstui pasti ade gak part2 yg terperli, termerajuk, terkepoh, tertakpuas hati etc. Apetah lagik la kalu kawin tu mentua tak berkenan. Bila dah berada dalam keadaan itu, ko takkan heran lah nk pakai lace dari negara mana time nikah. Kat kepala ko time tu nk lepaskan nikah aje .. kan? hahahahhahaa
As for me, bernasib baik la papi nk kawin xyah guna wali. Hahahahahaha. Akunye member mencanak hold kawin dekat 10tahun sbb bapak xmo jadik wali (tapi alhamdulillah dah kawin and bahagia pon aminn).
Katanye kalau kite kawin xdapat restu ibu bapa xkan bahagia. Betol ke? Itu sebelah pihak aje ke atau kedua2 pihak? Kalau mak pak aku restu and doakan kebahagiaan kitorg? Ha dah kire cam lawan doa bahagia ngan sumpahan la pulak ye? Hahahahahhaha
Bagi aku yg modern nih, aku lebeh suka dgn statement 'setiap pasangan mesti ada pasang surutnye, rough time sdr xkira la kaler kulit, beza agama, beza darjat ke ape' Jadik aku xsuka sgt lah kalu dgr spt 'ha aku dah cakap dah dia mmg jahat' hahaha hamboi cam ko leh tgk masa depan pulak hahahahhaha.
Pernah tak tgk drama yg mentua sungguh la kejam xkesah la kejam fizikal ke atau verbal. Kadang cam tak masuk aje kan? cam tipunye lah.. yg menantu tu kalu dah baik adoiii cam kena tindas gegila lah. Ropenye part mentua kejam tu mmg wujud cuma aku xjumpak lagik la menantu yg tahan kena buli siap doa tiap malam kesejahteraan mentua dia hahahhaha. Serius aku xpenah jumpak org yg begitu sabar.
Huh dah lari topik nih. Jadik kesimpulannye, kalu kedekut 300hengget kawin la dgn bukan gadis Selangor hahahhahah
We have about 2 weeks to 2010 and i think Allah hears my pray oredi. Hehe. Thank you so much MAS!. Now i can put lucky to be my middle name as i'm the official winner for this BOOK! hahahahhahahha (gelak kesukaan, rainbow everywhere today)
Now i should email Mas my pic. Huhuhuh which one yek?
Cant wait for the book.
I'm back to La La Land..
Now i should email Mas my pic. Huhuhuh which one yek?
Cant wait for the book.
I'm back to La La Land..
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