Last friday we had lunch at Pavillion. OMG! think the last time we met each others (cukup berempat) was at Biqque's place. Rindu banget. Biqque and i arrived early and waited for Elly and Debi for almost 45mins!!!!! Gile lama
'we were waiting for *^!@ ' jerit aku
'theme nye akon for today' said biqque
Anyway we pretend like we are tourist from Georgetown sbb malu la kan amik2 gambo kat situ. Elehhh cubak kalu kt negara orang tu.. longkang pon nk amik gambo. We had fun. i cum many times :D Hope next time we can get together again, sista this time pls ask permission from hubby memasing ok. No adhoc plan
p/s - bila kita nak sambung memori Langkawi? jom sista?
Sami wellknown as reverse cycle punye budak. xsuka botol. no pacifier rules. Dedicated thumb sucker. Sami weight 8.5kg on his 1yr besday. His paed said the ideal weight is 3times from his birth weight ie 9.36kg but as he's so sihat and active and manja and manja and manja. he's ok.
For me sami boy is slim and slender. nk jadik model ke ape? i'm quit worried as sometimes he only finish up to 5oz and normally upto 10oz from 9am-6pm. he's like dracula waktu mlm but since he's taking solid food his paed said ok. no problem. dont worry eventho i noticed he pass less urine last mth (tapi asik berak aje pulak). skang mamypoko size m 66pcs bleh tahan dlm 3 weeks gitu aje. huyuh. bukan psl kencing pasal kuat berak. hahahhaha
Currently i've got around 20btls of susu. cukup ke stok tu?
I tried to give him multivits tapi sama aje. Makan? he loves roti. nasik? makan gak. 3-4 suap dh kenyang. ok ke tuh? Active? hyper active sungguh la. hepi semacam.. sambil ke sana ke mari ukur umah.. mulut spt speaker dewan undangan hahahahhaha ikut sapa tu?
He's now 13mths. Alhamdulillah fully bf. Bila dia susu tu muka nmpak mcm ermmm sedapnye susu mami :D gile besh! I cant express byk skang. bese sehari dlm 6-10oz aje. agaknye sbb tu la dia reverse cycle. kesian kt mami dia nk pam xcukup.
Last week sami got hi-fever, xbape nk mkn but susu xbenti. every 1/2hr - 1hr. wahhh end up mami kelaparan. makan nasik smpai 4 kali sehari hahahhaha. Harap susu mami byk makin byk melimpah ruah.. aminn
last wednesday we are planning to watch race to the witch mountain but ape ntah yg busu pikir, busu tak book dulu so end up the only available and comfort seat is dragonball lah.
'busu, kakak taknak tgk dragonball' shasha said when we met at chilis.
'ala sori la busu tak book, next time kita tgk witch mountain tu ok?' busu berjanji and xsure bila nk penuhi janji tu.
we got tickets at 3.30pm, enough time to finish meals at chilis. mealS tu sbb i ordered 2 meals kahkahkahkah hambik ko! first lapo patu kalu xuder manu bese xlengkap.. patu tingin gak ngan fajitas ha smpai 2.
as usual shasha ngan jerry dok gaduh rebut barang.. rebut makanan. aku agak geram la dorg buat perangai cm kampung tapi dok spiking xbenti. paling nyiampah kat adik. dia if dikhalayak ramai mula la nk spiking. xpadan ngan xdek giginye tuh
'uncle nih mcm xlarat aje?' tnya shasha time kitorg turun sbb aku nk g nursing room
'uncle kenyanggg' jawab papi smbil kerut2 muka
'uncle ko nih mmg xsenonoh' perli kakak
apetaknye, papi ate sampai licin smpai nk koyak baju dia kahkahakhakahkah
we went to the nursing room before movie, still need to express karang terbengkak2 plak. before they open the cinema i bought 1 large popcorn and 2 minerals. ABIS siot. kahkahakahkahkah kuat mkn betol la kitorg nih
'buTHu, napa adik xdek seat??' tnya adik smbil muncung
'busu sori, mami ckp xyah beli seat utk adik, next time busu beli ok?' ye la kakak said adik too rendah to seat by himself, xsangka plak seat aritu tinggi.
we had fun. 4 star for evolution. i hope if they make sequal, they can add ekor to goku. half way thru the movie
' pssstt.. pssttt adik dh bosan' said kakak
adik mmg cmtu. dia suka non-stop action aje. any borak2 dia xbminat. anyway, aritu besh. harap next time dpt lepak cmtu lagik..
Alhamdulillah my nipps healed TAPI as we sent Sami to nursery on Wednesday, i need to use the pump to express and as i thought, the left nipp mengelupas balik eeeiii geram. Now i know what cause it. My what i called for the past year - new besfren - avent manual pump. errr actually not the real cause but it makes worse so i need alternative.
Tadaaa the idea is to express using my kuar2 urat hand. (sambil looking at my hands) duhhh they must hates me. i need lotion. Sorry tangan, dah lama xsapu lotion.
Camne? I do not know how. Need to learn. Quickly.
6 EASY (not sure easy or not, wait until i try) STEPS TO EXPRESS MILK FROM YOUR BREASTS BY HAND:
Position your hand on your breast, with the thumb above and fingers underneath, about an inch to an inch-and-a-half behind the nipple. If your breast were a clock, your thumb would be at 12 o'clock and your fingers at 6 o'clock. Don't cup your breast in your hand. Instead, your thumb and fingers should be directly across the nipple from each other.
Press your thumb and fingers directly back into the breast tissue, towards the wall of your chest. Don't move them further apart. Just press straight back into the breast.
Roll your fingers and thumb forward to squeeze milk out of the milk sinuses, which are located under the areola behind the nipple. Don't slide the thumb or fingers along the skin--this will quickly make you sore.
Repeat this sequence--position, press, roll--until the milk flow ceases. Then move your hand so that the thumb and fingers are positioned at 11 and 5 o'clock and do it again. Use both hands to work your way around one breast, then switch to the other side until you have emptied all of the milk sinuses. As soon as you see milk squirting from your nipple, you know you are compressing the underlying milk sinuses. (This position is also where baby's gums should be during efficient latch-on.)
The trick to hand expression is discovering where to position your fingers. Experiment until you find the right spot. Having someone show you how is very helpful, too.
Combining hand-expression with breast massage can be a very effective way to stimulate the milk-ejection reflex. Massage first, then express. Massage again, and repeat the hand- expressing routine.
OK. Macam senang TAPI i know its hard. Harder than u think. Know why? Even if u r using a very hi-tech pump (u gonna amazed how breastpump can be so hi-tech and expensive) u not gonna get good result as all these need concentration and skill. SAIKO2
Avoid These Motions
Do not squeeze the breast, as this can cause bruising.
Sliding hands over the breast may cause painful skin burns.
Avoid pulling the nipple which may result in tissue damage. (hahahaha nih breastfeeding bukan nipplefeeding)
Dah pektis sikit2. Tomorrow nk start la .. huishh seram gak first time nih.
"Hand expression should not hurt! If it does, you may be pressing too hard"
"We often turn to the most technologically advanced items, when simpler methods would work just as well, or even better in many cases"
I'm 100% jawa. Papi 25% Jawa, 25% Banjar & 50% combination of Iban, Kadazan and Bajau.
How is that? So Sammy need to learn about his anchestor :D
Who are the Orang Jawa? The Orang Jawa ('people of Java', also known as 'Javanese') migrated from Central Java, Indonesia, to Malaysia from 1880 to 1930. They migrated to seek a new life away from the Dutch colonists who ruled Indonesia at that time. Today the Orang Jawa live throughout Peninsular Malaysia in parts of Perak, Selangor, and Kedah. There are also isolated communities in coastal areas of Sabah. Some Jawa have even gained influential positions in society. The Chief Minister of Selangor traces his roots back to Orang Jawa ancestors. The Jawa language is being spoken less and less among today's younger Orang Jawa. Most of them have either never learned it or cannot remember how to speak it.
Yeap. Mami can understand about 99% Jawa language (jawa kasar - malaysian version ye) (have u heard jawa halus before?) but mami can't speak Jawa. If mami speak Jawa it's like comedian in TV who tried to speak Jawa and make fun of it sedangkan punye la bodoh bunyiknye and xdek jawa slanga langsung. ala like peps try to speak utara where they call langsir by langsiak.. which mak jah sblh umah slalu sebut langsir tu tirai.. buduh
Banjar (or Banjarese) is the name of an interior and coastal native ethnic group which settled in the Banjar region and in Banjarmasin, South Kalimantan, Indonesia, the fourth biggest city on the island of Borneo. A few hundred years ago, some of them had travelled to many places in the Malay archipelago. They set up pockets of settlement in those areas, namely in Perak mostly in Parit Buntar and Teluk Intan region, Selangor around Sabak Bernam and Sungai Besar and Batu Pahat, Johor in Malaysia, in Medan, Sumatra in Indonesia and many other places. Banjarese people is a melting pot of the native Dayaks, Malay ethnicity from Sumatra and the Javanese courts.
My dad in law is half Jawa half Banjar. He speaks Jawa but not sure if he can speak Banjar. Nanti nak tanya Abah. Papi? He doesnt understand and speak both languages DAN kebetulan pulak, my dad in law is originally from Sekinchan, Selangor where i was born and raised. Where do you think i got that name 'Skin'?
The Banjar language (bjn) reflects the history of people. It is basically the Malay language brought from Sumatra, with some words are taken from Javanese and native Dayaks. I can't understand banjar but used to the language so sometimes i can assumed what are they talking about. Ala like my sis in law, satu hapah xtau Jawa but eventually dapat tangkap gak maksudnye kadang2.
The Ibans are a branch of the Dayak peoples of Borneo. They were formerly known during the colonial period by the British as Sea Dayaks. Ibans were renowned for practising headhunting and tribal/territorial expansion. A long time ago, being a very strong and successful warring tribe, the Ibans were a very feared tribe in Borneo. They speak the Iban language.
The Kadazans are an ethnic groupindigenous to the state of Sabah in Malaysia. They are found mainly on the west coast of Sabah, the surrounding locales, and various locations in the interior. Due to similarities in culture and language with the Dusun ethnic group, and also because of other political initiatives, a new unified term called "Kadazan-dusun" was created. Collectively, they form largest ethnic group Sabah.
Kadazan culture is heavily influenced by the farming of rice, culminating in various delicacies and alcoholic drinks prepared through differing home-brewed fermentation processes. Tapai and lihing are the main rice wine variants served and consumed in Kadazan populated areas, and are a staple of Kadazan social gatherings and ceremonies.
The Bajau, (also written as Badjao, Badjaw or Badjau) are an indigenousethnic group of Malaysia and the southern Philippines. Although native to the southern Philippines, due to escalated conflicts in the Sulu Archipelago in the southern part of the country, many of the Bajau had migrated to neighboring Malaysia over the course of 50 years, where currently they are the second largest ethnic group in the state of Sabah, making up 13.4% of the total population.
The origin of the word Bajau is not clear cut. Although it is generally accepted that these groups of people can be termed Bajau, these groups never call themselves Bajau. They call themselves with the names of their tribes that are mostly the names of the places of where they live. They accept the term because they realise that they share some vocabulary and general genetic characteristic such as in having darker skin, although the Simunuls appear to be an exception in having fairer skin.
My mother in law is Sabahan. Papi said that mak keturunan Iban, Kadazan and Bajau. Mana dtg ibannye tuh? bukan iban kat sarawak ke? huk aloh mau 10thn xabis nak kaji sume keturunan. Tu belum part bahasa, budaya, food, adat resam, music, dance, cuisine.. huh byk tuh. Anyway, Papi can speak 'Sabah' but i forbid him to speak that languange to me (sori bukan nak pilih kasih but as he always jokes around so i feels like kena rape ngan org lain aje if he speak sabah to me).
I've 3 siblings. Kakak the eldest kawin ngan Abg Mie yg berketurunan Nogori (dorg still ikut adat pepatih tu) and he also mix chinese. So Shasha & Jerry mmg la tersgt 'Cina' nye mcm debi ngan Aisha. While my brother is the only son kawin ngan Kak Ma yg Maminye berasal dari bukit Tinggi Indonesia and Papinye org Ganu. So Danish ngan Zuyyin tersgt la kendonnye hahahaha. Dulu time Danish dlm umur 3-4 thn dia slalu ckp.. ya ampunnn and ada certain masa dia sebut 'hati2 ya buk' hahahhaha and i always reply to him 'oit Danish busu tau la Danish Indon' hahahha and I'm the youngest and the spoil one. I married Papi and you know la ape campuran Sami tu hehehehe.
I'm quite excited to know more about papi's keturunan memandangkan budayanya yg sungguh meluas (beshnye kalu dpt pakai costume pengantin dorg huhuhuhu). We will balik Sabah one day but not sure when. If we had that opportunity, kompom aku akan pusing satu sabah hehehe..
Oh yeah, did i tell you that papi is my american berbangsa jawa boifren? Eventho he mix with sume diatas, he grew up in states. so dia mmg langsung2 tiada budaya mesia. hummpphhh..
I met Sonia the other day at Harith's besday party and she said 'tak sangka skin breastfeed sami, xsangka la skin jadi 'mami' mcm nih. Sonia respek..'
Sonia is Amir's gf. She's cun, soft spoken, baik ati and mcm asik kena buli aje ngan amir. hehehehe. And i'm still remembered when she bising at me at Deb & Nan's wedding when i said i do not want children. She bebel 'skin, xbuleh ckp mcm tu. anak2 la yg akan sambung keturunan kite. skin patut consider utk dpt baby and so on.. ' huyuh terus i replied 'ok. skin janji skin akan beranak' hahahahaha xlarat nk dgr bebelan Sonia and infact if we got baby girl we are going to call her Sonia.. sempena makcik Sonia yg baik ati tu hehehehe.
And, after we attended the antenal class i was so determined to breastfeed BUT felt so foolish (till now) coz i didnt get full info on BF. So, i was not aware and not prepared for the side effect for not doing the right way. My breast was engorged and my nip crack like hell. Thanks to Papi for giving me full support and feed me with info, suggestion, solutions, time & money spending and we managed to get thru it.
BUT as i became expert. i MIGHT be over confident and on last October i suffered the same. CRACK. wat the hell. Tak lama around 2 days aje tapi sakit okkk. Then for the past 3 weeks i noticed that my both nipp pink sket. Aiseh.. nak kena lagik ke?
What are they?
Breastfeeding may make your nipples sore. But cracked and bleeding nipples are not a normal side effect of breastfeeding. Nursing isn't meant to be painful — in fact, pain is a warning sign that you have a problem that needs correcting.
I dont think i've done any wrong.
What causes the condition?
The main cause of cracked or bleeding nipples is improper positioning of the baby at the breast. This also causes severe nipple pain. Correcting your nursing technique can substantially soothe or cure cracked nipples. Sometimes just the slightest correction of positioning will make a world of difference.
If your baby has thrush, you may get cracked nipples and shooting pains in the breast during or after a feeding. Thrush is a yeast infection of the mouth that results when yeast naturally present in the body grows and spreads out of control.
Your nipples could also crack or bleed because of severe dry skin, or if you have eczema. You can get an eczema-like condition on the nipples or breasts as a result of very dry air, laundry detergent residue, ointment or lotion applied to the breast, bath soap or antibacterial cleanser, powder, hair spray, deodorant, perfume, or cologne.
Using a breast pump wrong can also hurt your nipples, and make them crack or bleed. Be especially careful when you pump, as certain machines and handling your breasts too roughly can injure delicate breast tissue, breaking the capillaries. Excessive suction from a breast pump has caused hemorrhages under the skin in some women.
Ok. Kadang mmg sami tergigit sbb dia dh tertido. He never bite me on purpose. Good boy but i have to agree with the use of breastpump coz sometimes my nipp feels a bit sore after using it.
And semalam my nipp start crack ala sakit menci.. eeii mintak2 arr cpt baik.. amin amin
What should I do?
If your nipples bleed or crack, try the following:
• Check your baby's positioning. A poor latch-on technique is the most common reason for this condition. Your baby should face your nipple, tummy to tummy with you. Your baby needs to open wide to take in a good mouthful of both the nipple and the areola. The best latch-on position is off-centered, with more of the areola below the nipple in your baby's mouth. Line up his nose with your nipple so that his bottom gum is far away from the base of your nipple when he opens. Your nipple should be far back in your baby's mouth.• Change positions at every feeding. This focuses the pressure of the baby's gums on a different area of the breast each time.
• Nurse more frequently, but for shorter periods. Remember, the longer you go between feedings, the hungrier your baby will be — and the harder he will nurse.
• Rub a little breast milk on your nipples after each feeding and let it air dry. The milk actually helps heal them.
• Don't use soap, alcohol, lotions, or perfumes on the nipples. Bathing with clear water is all it takes to keep your breasts and nipples clean.
• Take painkillers. If the pain is severe, you can take a mild painkiller (acetaminophen or ibuprofen) about 30 minutes before nursing.
• For deep, painful cracks, try medical-grade modified lanolin (such as Lansinoh ) made specifically for breastfeeding mothers. Rub a small amount of the ointment on your nipples. This treatment, called "moist wound healing," relieves pain and allows the wounds to heal much faster without forming a scab. It does not need to be washed off before feedings.If a crack or wound shows no sign of healing, check with your doctor or healthcare professional.
Will the condition affect my baby?
Babies are generally unfazed by cracked or otherwise injured nipples. Blood in the milk doesn't hurt them, and breastfeeding can continue. The main concern here is to correct the problem and allow the nipple to heal, so that nursing is once again a pleasurable experience for both you and the baby.
Can I still nurse?
Yes. Nothing in the world is more wonderful than breastfeeding your baby — but convincing a mother with cracked, bleeding nipples of this is near impossible. Getting help from a lactation consultant right away can make all the difference.
Duhh nothing can stop me from nursing. I totally enjoy BF. Not all mothers can BF their baby and i know i'm the lucky one. Peps keep telling me Sami so lucky even papi always say the same thing. Nah.. i'm the lucky one. Thank you Allah. Syukur Alhamdulillah.
I think the last movie i watched in woyang are Transformers & Die Hard 4.0, huh! lama tuh. So today i treat myself with woyang. I was contemplating, its either Dragonball or Watchmen. Yeah exactly the type movie i wanna watch. Action-packed Superhero is my favourite. So end up i choose Watchmen and know what? it was the most STI-UUUU-PIDDD movie ever! Period
The era is bosan. The hero is so heroic. The costume is so superhero wannabe. The action is superb like how 67yrs old MAN with no superpower can be so kuat and hebat? or did i miss the part that tells how they became so strong? do i need to read the comic first? I bet if i read the comics i will be more frustated as the movie is so 5 star sucks! Oh yeah, the aksi-lucah was so boring and lame. Siap part hooker flash tetek kat Rorschach pon nampak. Hoi lupe nk potong ke part tu? hahahaha
I'm watching the woyang alone. But adalah around 20peps yg nonton bersama. There are 3 guys sitting in my row (sblh aku je ekceli), cumbu2 couple kt depan and ntah sapa2 kt blkg. The funny things is the cumbu2 couple infornt of me keep bercumbu mcm budak sekolah bercinta xtau nk geli2 kt mana pilih panggung wayang la tmpt nk terlebih geli. The cumbu couple tu lakinye mat saleh umur dlm 40an and minah nye gadis. cun? xtau xpasan muka tapi badan seksi. umur dlm 20an. xsure gak melayu ke cina. In the middle of woyang suddenly i heard someone snoring kahkahkahkah tapi bese gak la tu and dlm setgh jam nk abis woyang tetiba aje mamat2 sblh aku dh xdek kahkahakhakah. After finished and kuar dr woyang i heard one couple, the boyfren 'errmm besh kan?' sambil beri pandangan bermakna kat gelfrennye. the gelfren yg betudung senyum sumbing patu dedua gelak.. hahahhaha thats mean not only me la yg myiampah kt movie nih.
Why i didnt choose Dragonball? I read and watch dragonball. I have high expectation so when i know whos the cast and just look at the banner i cant let myself to be dissapointed. Huh nyesal aku! Ingat dh buat right decision. Cis Cis Cis
I wonder if comic fan of watchmen has send death threat to Zack Snyder
Anyway, cant wait for more Tranformers & Mr. Wolverine himself
2. Pening asik hadap TV ngan PC
3. Rindu kat Sammy
4. Kena pump susu
5. Masak dinner aje tu pon if Papi nak makan
6. Xmandi pon xpe
Papi ckp if xdpt keje lagik, hantar gak Sammy g nurseri. Semalam bb offer naik gaji ewahhh. Keje lain xdpt lagik. Tempting gak tapi dh meluat2 nk keje situ. Cmne tu? Nak duk umah jaga Sammy baru sehari dah penat.. cmne la si Nad bleh jaga Adam huh respect2..
Skang tgh sungguh2 carik keje. Cakap kt Papi if xdpt keje nk keje part time dulu. Beshnye kalau dpt buat keje bodoh2 aje xyah pikir. Tapi keje bodoh tu buleh ke bayar utang? Ermm duk umah sexy2 pon muka xbasuh gak.. huishhh
1. aku stress, depress secara tetiba dari january lagik. tetiba rasa cm empty, sedih, frust, marah, nak nangis, dukalara, nak mati suma ade. kesannye berat turun, demam, jiwa kacau sbb asik susah ati and paling xtahan susu kurang smpai susah nk letdown
2. secara tetiba benci dgn keje. nak benti keje tapi tensen sbb byk utang.
3. mcm cilaka pulak kerana kompeni bongok nih xdek fund dah. gaji dari bulan 1 xdpt. kesimpulannye anto suratbenti keje (yahuuuu) tapi still one mth notice, ye la nk blah terus kang xdpt gaji. paling bongok bb nk tunggu duit projek aku yg nak masuk seminggu dua lagik nih.
kitorg mmg excited gile nk smbut birthday sami, ye la xsangka tul la baby kecik tu dh setahun. siap jln tkedek2 hehehehe. ari sbtu tu aku still demam & batuk teruk. pagi2 dh bangun terus prepare ape yg patut.
- rebus telo utk na cik elly buat sandwich - ermm sedap! tengkiu na cik elly
- kuarkn brg2 utk msk spagetti - abis papi nye spagetti. sedap!
- kuarkn bekas ape yg patut
patu kejut papi suh mandikan sami, tunggu abah yg kepenatan baru smpai dr bandung and dlm kul 10 lebeh kitorg kuar bekfas. lps bekfas papi insist gak nk pg beli hadiah sami. hamboii xnyempat. aku xmo ikut. blk siap amik coklat fountain yg xmenjadik tu (cinabeng betol) and kelam kabut la prepare sume barang. bleh la plak kak ros anto makanan lambat. mak dh siap mkn spagetti dulu sbb lapo.
dekat kul 4 baru la sume ready (dgn aku2 skalik la ready). turun bwh aje nmpak bang zamn ngan princess. gee pon dh sampai. sian dorg tunggu. okek buffet line kite:
lega betol. ramai gak yg datang. tapi frust sket sbb kelam kabut so xdpt melayan org. paling xsangka sami dpt byk sgt hadiah. siap dpt duit ngan voucher lagik. ya allahhh beshnye. besh sbb hepi. hepi dh genap setahun aku susukan sami! yeahuuu!!!
tapi lawak gak la time nyanyi ngan tiup lilin sami nangis. musti cam napa sume org kerumun nih. aku rimas la. sian sami. dia sbb ngantuk ngan rimas sbb diaper penuh. tapi xdek la dia cranki sgt. siap suka naik kete kena tolak pusing keliling pool.
to sami boy:
- mami & papi loves u
- mami doa kan sami sihat, cerdas, active, good boy
- dgr ckp mami. mami dh bg nama baik2 tu
- mami halalkan susu mami
- mami wish yg baik2 aje untuk sami
- mami bagi sami nak kawin ngan sapa aje bile besa nanti
hamboiiii sami nye hadiahhhhh. patu siap treat urself lagik ngan bluetooth tuuu.. hamboiiiiiii i punye???? anyway thanks for paying ye. i love u. congratulations. dh setahun u TOLONG i jaga sami. dah setahun jugak la u SABAR dgn karenah i yg skit2 nk arah & bebel kat u. cukup setahun u SAYANG i ngan sami. byk lagik list tapi i harap BERTAHUN2 la kite bahagia mcm nih.
to diri sendiri:
congratulations. dh setahun susukan sami. dh setahun jadik hot mami. dah setahun la trial & error. dah setahun jugak spoilkan sami ngan papi. diharap tiap2 tahun la dpt buat party ewahhh.
kepada sapa yg datang. tengkiu so much! nnti bile gambo dh siap bleh la tgk.